Sexual morality isn’t normally a topic of apologetics ministries but it should be, because it’s an important teaching which is usually overlooked due to how the world looks at it.
For the Christian all sexual activity must be within the bounds and bonds of marriage, yet so very many of our young believers fall into sexual sin because the world says there is no such thing as sexual sin.
I have played my pipes for at least 50 weddings in the past 40 years (and attended at least 20 as a guest), both Christian and for unbelievers. The sad thing is that it is very obvious with both kinds that with many the couples have been living together or at least sexually active.
My wife came across a TV program while sitting doing hand work (sewing, crocheting or other craft) which shows most couples have no shame. The show is titled, Say Yes to the Dress, which is on TLC. (Free ROKU.) It’s about a place in Atlanta which has wedding dresses costing from low into the upper thousands of dollars. It’s so very apparent that most of the couples have been living together for some time and yet they want the fancy white dresses for big weddings.
The idea of the white dress, as far as I was taught, was the purity of the bride when taking a husband. And yet on that show it doesn’t appear as if any of the women are “pure.” (Of course the husband to be should also be “pure” but his attire doesn’t have such a symbol.)
As noted above, I’ve played for lots of Christian weddings also and, sadly, many of them are obviously not virgin brides due to the devaluing of virginity even in Christian weddings.
This whole discussion was brought about by two things: the TV series and the following citation with which I will end this post.
[A] consequence of devaluing virginity has been the devaluing of marriage. Until the latter half of the twentieth century, one reason men married was that marriage provided the one socially acceptable way to have sex on a regular basis. It was not the only reason men got married—religion and society made marriage and family central values—but now that A) society does not promote marriage, B) religion is dying, and C) many men can get sex with no commitment, fewer Western (and Asian) men and women are marrying than ever before.
Dennis Prager, The Rational Bible, Deuteronomy: God, Blessings, and Curses, pg.350
If "young believers" are falling into sexual sin, they probably aren't believers to begin with.
ReplyDeleteDennis Prager isn't an Old Testament scholar and nor is a e believer so we shouldn't be listening to him anyway.
I don't know who you are, Keith, but you seem to be a troll.
ReplyDeleteHow you decide that young people falling into sexual sin are therefore not real Christians is one heck of bad judgment. Real Christians fall into all sorts of sin.
Who are you to determine that Prager isn't an O.T. scholar? I've studied his commentaries and there is no lacking in scholarship--have you read any? Are you an O.T. scholar?
Prager is a practicing Jew; one doesn't have to only listen to teachings from Christians. Jews knew their O.T. theology.